See for me, the only way if i ever loaned out any DVD's is to my friends that actually lived close by to me or at the time when i was going to college. So pretty much i would loan them out if i saw that person face to face every day, or week. It doesn't matter if you became friends with that person over the internet and actually learned to trust them over the time. Anybody can do that. But then all of a sudden you give out your info and keep on trading stuff with them and then all of a sudden you're completely screwed. I know none of you here at HM are definitely not like that. But it's just my philosophy that i don't give out any info over the net including ebay. I just never nor ever purchase anything over the net b/c i actually like to go to the store where i'm going to actually purchase the item and actually see it. But hey everyone is different than everyone else and see if everyone was the same, then it would be boring as hell. I'm not trying to start anything. I was just giving my opinion on the whole internet thing.
I am a good judge of character and I bought over a hundred items on ebay and wasn't ever dissapointed thats why they have a feedback system, you can always get your money back if you don't like what your getting, as far as trading I don't do it much but when I have done it its worked out fine.
I know the internet is full of assholes but so is the real world you can get burned just as easily in real life as you can online.
Just my thoughts and I respect yours.