Techical Virginity?

Never......if you've ever stuck a penis inside a vagina or had your vagina penetrated by a penis...you are not a virgin.  It's not just a physical thing, it's very much mental.

Once and done.  There is no re-virginization.

Once you've had "traditional" sex, your virginity is lost.

In my humble opinion,  no revirgining.  you can be "celibate" and not a virgin, but you can't take back the unpenetratedness of a vagina.

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That makes sense.  So three years of celibacy although sad and lonely does not a revirgin make. It makes you not a sleeper arounder.  But can one forget how to do it?

Thanks for that Constantce.  You have reassured me greatly.

growing up in the church (my dads a preacher) re-virginity seemed to me as a knee jerk reaction to ones own gulit for what they have done. to call do-over does not change your past misdeeds for simply whipes them away. owning and taken responsibilty for your choices alow you to learn from them. hiding them away bulids resentment for oneself and for other who remind you of yourself cause you can see your blunder in them. everything we do good or bad, moral or otherwise builds us into who we are why shame something out of your life as opossed to saying "i was wrong but heres what i learned and heres why im stronger for learning it". this is all imo and do not take away from anyone elses views on the matter.