Ah, 'Zilla, no need to stop showing up. You guys have to remember, this is supposed to be fun.
No need to point fingers as to who started the lengthy off-topic talk between movies. It happens every movie night. It just went on longer than usual this time. Folks started busting each other's chops -- in a friendly way -- but it seems said friendly chop busting has been misinterpreted as being hostile.
Also, Azzie did give us a heads up that he would be recording the off-topic bit. I think -- and this is not intended as an insult to either Pam OR Heidi, because you two know I dig you just fine -- but I think you guys were just too busy talking to hear him say that, or to notice that he'd also typed it in the text area.
At any rate. Let's not make this such a serious thing, here. It's Movie Night. It's supposed to be fun, talking about the movie while it's playing and talking about whatever in between and after. Everyone's welcome, and nobody should feel insulted.
We're friends here, right? Let's keep it that way.